Depression is like a turtle with a bubble. People don’t always see the bubble, but you can feel it.
People don’t always understand that you are depressed. They might say that you are just lazy and that hurts.
That is not an excuse for hurting you. They usually just don’t want you to hurt so they try to give it another name. Try to remember that no one on this whole planet gets away with not hurting at some point in their life.
They can be old or young, rich or poor, happy all the time or sad. They do not get out of this life scott free. I have had people belittle me, but it all comes back to haunt them.
I was criticized a lot by someone. I think they just feel left out. But, for everything that I said that he didn’t understand he would say that I was not right. But, years later he went through some bad times that he didn’t think that he deserved because he was a good person! Most people are basically nice. He deserved what he went through just like all of us have too.
We all are here to learn different lessons. We need to live through what we were born for good or bad. It is not always nice, but everyone has to have some drama in their lives.
You are not a lazy person at all. Your head is probably buzzing with ideas and projects that you would like to do. It is the depression that holds us back. The ideas just sound to complicated for us. To do one thing you have to get ready by getting the things you need then get started then not lose interest before you’re done. The list goes on in your head and it just sounds too hard.
With depression it is an energy problem. If you just pick something and start it, it is not as hard as you depression is telling you it is.
Do not listen to people that tell you that you are lazy. You are probably busier in your head than they are in their whole rushing lifestyle.
Keep just working on yourself and they will have their time to worry about when things get hard for them.
Give yourself a brake and be nice to you. Don’t worry about their problems right now.
Depression is a very odd thing that happens to some people. It is something we can work on and get help for. Do not give up!
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